Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Sadness and Depression

Sadness, Fears and Phobias

Try not to be too punctilious and exacting with every thing you do, because such thoughts are products of the evil inclination. He causes many to have excessive fears and phobias that constantly plague him causing him to fear that he has not done his religious duty properly and that he has not fulfilled his religious obligations. This brings a person down and causes sadness and despair.

Sadness is one of the greatest obstacles in serving Hashem as is known. Even is you stumble and sin inadvertently, nonetheless do not be overly sad and depressed because this will stop your Avodas Hashem and prevent it. Rather you should be sad or upset about the sin itself you committed and you should return and be happy once more, rejoicing in Hashem, your Creator. because you sincerely regret your mistakes and promise not to do so again.

Even if you are sure that you actually cannot fulfill your religious duty or obligation because of the many obstacles in your path, still, do not be sad or despondent. Rather think to yourself that the Blessed Creator who examines your innermost heart and knows what is really going on inside, He knows what your true sincere intentions are and that your will was to do your best.

(Rav Asher from Karlin Stolin – Intro to Beis Aharon #2 pg 3)



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Monday, February 4, 2013

Story and Commentary

The Holy author of the Sefas Emes once retold of his first visit to Kotzk.

He observed that there was no order and no one watching and safeguarding the Kotzker's household and court. People and guests came and went and the doors were always open.

This lack of organization and supervision led to a series of "missing" objects which no doubt went missing along with those "missing" persons who had pilfered them.

The Shamash, the Kotzker's attendant was named Feivel, and his argument with the Rebbitzen was so loud as he bemoaned the missing, presumed stolen silver candlesticks on that erev Shabbos, that everyone in the house heard it. Even the Rebbe himself.

"Feivel what is all the commotion?!" the Kotzker demanded.

Reb Feivel was yelling "And why shouldn't they steal?! Eh? Why not? When everything here is hefker! Open and free for all!? Why should'nt they steal?!"

"What!" roared the Kotzker, "Feivel how can anyone steal, it says in the Torah "Thou Shall Not Steal!!!"

Years later the Sefas Emes related:

"Now when I heard the holy Kotzker roar those words it seemed to me at that very moment that there was no possibility of stealing anything at all because of the negative commandment not to do so!"

This is what the Sefas Emes took back with him from his first visit to Kotzk.

Siach Sarfei Kodesh - Yisro

Commentary:

There is a fine line between should not and can not. We are given free will and we are also challenged with the evil urges and temptations which try and test us to sin. We are free to resist and overcome temptation and thus be rewarded. We are free to give in and succumb to our desires and be punished for our misdeeds. The choice is ours. This is because we do not see or experience Divine revelation first hand. Hashem is hidden from us. We believe and our faith and emunah carries us to the strength needed to overcome those urges temptations and desires. However we do not see. If we did see or hear Hashem first hand we would automatically lose our free choice. There is no choice or freedom to disbelieve that which is clearly and plainly right in front of your eyes. If Hashem 's presence is first hand knowledge and you Hear him command, you are not free to disobey any longer.

It seems to me that the Sefas Emes was transported on that Erev Shabbos to Har Sinai. The holy tzadik, the Kotzker became a channel and a medium for the Shechina which spoke from his throat as he uttered the commandment "Thou Shall Not Steal." The Sefas Emes heard this mitvzva as is from Hashem Himself, and thus at that time for that moment he was transformed from a free willed chooser to one who has no choice but to obey. This is why he felt that at that moment he could not understand how anyone could steal?! How can you steal if Hashem tells you not to! It went from the meaning of "you should not steal" transformed into the words "you can Not steal." It is impossible to steal, it cannot be done, it simply is not a choice.

We all go through such stages in our lives. Our intellect and our logical reason tell us we should not do things, yet the evil urges tempt us beyond reason to do them and so we give in. However at the point where we strengthen our resolve an say, no I can not do this! At the point where we triumph and defeat the evil urge, then we lose the free will to choose evil and we transform the suggestion of "you should not sin" into "you can not sin."
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Yisro - Ten Commandments

I wish I could have sent this out an shared these teachings before Shabbos but all these ideas only came to me on Shabbos as I studied them, but there is never too early or late in the Torah as they say:

All 3 of these appear in the collection known as Siach Sarfei Kodesh

1. The Kotzker asked what did David haMelech innovate in the verse in Tehillim 81 "You shall have no foreign gods among you"? Isnt this an explicit Divine commandment from the ten commandmnets, "You shall have no other gods before Me," in parashas Yisro ?! If so what chiddush is there in King David's words?!
The Kotzker answered that King David meant: G-d Himself should not foreign to you!
The posuk in Tehillim reminded me of the idea that "we should have no foreign gods within us!" within us there are evil urges and desires pulling us like foreign deities to worship something else!

2. The Chiddushei HaRim, the first Gerrer Rebbe cited the teaching of our sages in the Midrash that Zachor and Shamor, the commandment to remember Shabbos and Safeguard it mentioned here in Shemos and repeated in Devarim was said simultaneously both as Remember and Safeguard, which Chazal taught is something which the mouth cannot utter and the ear cannot hear. The Chiddushei HaRim asked if these ideas are so lofty that no human mouth can utter them, nor can any hyuman ear hear them, why say them? He answered that nonetheless the act upon the soul.
It occurred to me that this may mean, that even though our mouths cannot utter it and our ears cannot hear it, but our hearts can. Because the heart has the capacity to transcend the barriers of sight and sound. Sight, sound and speech can mold and impress, however the power to love, that emotion transcends them for it transcends all boundaries and defies all logic and reason. We can love without seeing or hearing and so our heart can feel this even if our mouths and ears cannot speak or hear it.



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